Tuesday, February 26, 2013

LOL :P

My theory in life is....Laugh. Bad days are made good, good days are made great, and friends become closer with a good joke. So for flirting with PM, I thought I'd try funny. I'm really bad at telling jokes so I googled them ( I google a lot!!). He said his favorite was
How much does a Hipster weigh?......An Instagram! (insert drum sound here)
I preferred the one about working at a fire hydrant factory but to each his own. Anyway my joke skills were not the greatest, but then I was mindlessly searching Pinterest when I found this website.
Dailyoddcompliment.tumblr.com
This is funny mixed with flirty and nothing too heavy for Preacher. So I started with one...but in my frenzy I ended up sending like 5! But then I stopped sending them and started saving them for another day.
So to sum up, Laughter is the key to a first start at flirting, at least in my book. It's also involved in His book too. We all know the verse from Footloose, sometimes we focus on the dancing and forget the rest. Well go check out Ecclesiates 3:4, because there is a time for laughing too. Also forgot to mention this last time, but any ladies out there with Godly men, how do you flirt with them? Advice is always welcome!

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Hey ;)

So you're obviously Googleing, How to flirt with a pastor, and it's not turning out any good answers(unless you count how to tell if your single pastor is flirting with the young girls or flirting with a married pastor). Also, if your intention is to flirt with a not single pastor, may I suggest you turn off the computer and open the Bible. I refuse to help you cheat or help you allow someone else to cheat. Everyone still here? Great! Let's start with a little about me and why I started this blog. I'm Amber. I'm 23 years old and so very single. I've just accepted God's most ridiculous idea/call to be a youth evangelist, so there might be a few post about that here, or my other blog Amber's Ad-Libs. There is a very fine man that has agreed to be my guinea pig during this experience is a youth pastor about 2 hours from me. We met at a college and career retreat in early February. For the safety of his ministry, he will be known as Preacher Man, or PM.
It has always been in my nature to be a flirtatious woman. I love flirting. I believe that sex before marriage is never a good idea and that flirting before marriage is a must. So when PM and I started talking, my plan was simply to get to know him and for him to get to know me. As we talk, my flirtatious side is just dying to come out, but I have to stop myself because well he's a preacher. So I wondered how far is too far and how do you flirt with a SINGLE man of the cloth. I asked my youth pastor's wife and she gave me the answer of we are married and flirting married is different then single flirting.(DUH) and so I ask again, well what about before you were married, to which she answers
"We weren't saved at that time so it was very different."
Anyway, as I wrap up this long winded story, my point is, this blog is for my adventures in pursueing Christian men, Godly men, and even finding my own way in the love department. So this evangelist says goodnight for now and here's to finding out how to flirt more Godly..